Coworker is a really cute girl
I've gotten to know this really amazing girl at work over the last few days. She and I totally connect - we always have things to talk about, and she smiles whenever I see her. I'm thinking about taking her out for coffee, but there's that nagging voice in the back of my head telling me that a relationship with a coworker is a bad idea. All my friends tell me this.So anyway. What are your opinions on relationships between coworkers? What are the pros and cons? What should I avoid? And please don't reply with something like: "Don't do it man, you'll hate her forever." Try and be a bit constructive.
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i married my coworker.lasted 15 years...i guess it can wo rk.i'm sure one of you won't be working there forever...people have to meet someone place...why noy at work
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if you can snag a cute girl,who cares where yous work.cute girls rock
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lots of people think that they will find their significant other in the work place. honestly just keep it under wraps from other co-workers. it's best to keep work and play separate so the big thing i guess would be to keep it professional at work. but when it's time to play it's just like dating. and as i'm sure you know if things go south remember that you work with her and to keep that relationship professional it's gotta be a nice break up. just not dirty or unhealthy. (no break ups are nice hopefully you understand.)
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I can't say I've had many good experiences in this category. Usually what happens is, we go out for a while, but someone else (at work) eventually comes along and spoils things, and I end up being jealous. And having to work with both parties every day makes it worse. On the other hand, when I DON'T ask them out I spend each day wondering if it could have worked. Just bad results either way. Only thing that's made my life better is keeping my interests outside of the workplace.
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Its better to ask than to go, "Jeeze, I've been single for 10 years, where did all the time go?"
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What the fuck? This isn't a fucking advice website. Fuck you.
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True, but it's a "venting" website. Venting doesn't always have to be in a negative context.
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#6. You might want to look up the definition of the word because #7 is right.
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Hey #6 whats it like? Being a complete D-Bag. Do you have to join a club? Are there membership fees? Who cares though right. I bet you get a killer discount at American Eagle and Abercrombie.
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OP here:
Thanks, #1. That was exactly what I needed to hear. To #6, fuck off and take a pill.
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#9 That last line was amazing.
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I agree that meeting a cute girl at work can be great, and successful. But also be prepared for the mess, if it doesn't work out well.
Best of Luck!
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Think this simple thing: If she wasn't your co-worker, would you still date her?. Moreover, could you wait until she changes her job and still try to date her?
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Hey #9 watch it, my last name it Abercrombie
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#14, read over your post and tell me if you meant "is" and not "it." #9, your the DOUCHEbag here. And to the guy who posted this vent, wtf are you venting about? this is a venting site, not a girls slumber party. grow a pair of nuts.... You cocksucker!
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i married my coworker.lasted 15 years...i guess it can wo rk.i'm sure one of you won't be working there forever...people have to meet someone place...why noy at workPosted 8 months ago | Report
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if you can snag a cute girl,who cares where yous work.cute girls rockPosted 8 months ago | Report
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lots of people think that they will find their significant other in the work place. honestly just keep it under wraps from other co-workers. it's best to keep work and play separate so the big thing i guess would be to keep it professional at work. but when it's time to play it's just like dating. and as i'm sure you know if things go south remember that you work with her and to keep that relationship professional it's gotta be a nice break up. just not dirty or unhealthy. (no break ups are nice hopefully you understand.)Posted 8 months ago | Report
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I can't say I've had many good experiences in this category. Usually what happens is, we go out for a while, but someone else (at work) eventually comes along and spoils things, and I end up being jealous. And having to work with both parties every day makes it worse. On the other hand, when I DON'T ask them out I spend each day wondering if it could have worked. Just bad results either way. Only thing that's made my life better is keeping my interests outside of the workplace.Posted 8 months ago | Report
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Its better to ask than to go, "Jeeze, I've been single for 10 years, where did all the time go?"Posted 8 months ago | Report
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What the fuck? This isn't a fucking advice website. Fuck you.Posted 8 months ago | Report
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True, but it's a "venting" website. Venting doesn't always have to be in a negative context.Posted 8 months ago | Report
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#6. You might want to look up the definition of the word because #7 is right.Posted 8 months ago | Report
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Hey #6 whats it like? Being a complete D-Bag. Do you have to join a club? Are there membership fees? Who cares though right. I bet you get a killer discount at American Eagle and Abercrombie.Posted 8 months ago | Report
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OP here:Thanks, #1. That was exactly what I needed to hear. To #6, fuck off and take a pill.
Posted 8 months ago | Report
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#9 That last line was amazing.Posted 8 months ago | Report
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I agree that meeting a cute girl at work can be great, and successful. But also be prepared for the mess, if it doesn't work out well.Best of Luck!
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Think this simple thing: If she wasn't your co-worker, would you still date her?. Moreover, could you wait until she changes her job and still try to date her?Posted 8 months ago | Report
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Hey #9 watch it, my last name it AbercrombiePosted 7 months ago | Report
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#14, read over your post and tell me if you meant "is" and not "it." #9, your the DOUCHEbag here. And to the guy who posted this vent, wtf are you venting about? this is a venting site, not a girls slumber party. grow a pair of nuts.... You cocksucker!Posted 7 months ago | Report
