With a man, but needing a woman
I have been with men all my life, having the occsional drunk make out sessions with girls. I am in a relationship with a wonderful guy who is amazing and pleases me just right. I would never ever cheat on him and don't want to be apart from him. But what I do want is a time where I can figure out my curiosity with a woman without doing him wrong or having him involved in it. I couldn't ration seeing him with another girl let alone one with me. I need to have this thing but don't want to hurt him or he leave me over it. This has been something I have wanted to do for a while to find out what I really want. How can I go about this without hurting my man whom I love so much???
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1Sounds to me like you're looking for an excuse to cheat on him. It doesn't matter if it's with another man or a woman or what your reasoning is, if this is a serious relationship, you'd be cheating.
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2Compromise, and let him in on it.
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3You might have to just break it off with him, unless you want to wait until your curiosity gets so bad that you randomly fuck some girl on craigslist.
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4***-part2***I'm not looking or wanting to cheat. Neither do I want us to be apart from him. He is an amazing peroson who completes me in everyway, so I think. Our relationship is very serious, that is why I have not acted upon this curiosity. I don't know, maybe these thoughts will just go away.
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5Sounds to me like you got screwed into thinking you were gay but you're not. If you were really gay you would have no interest in women. On the other hand, if you're bi, you have to make a choice and stick to it or else cheat or hope he's open to the idea of you having multiple partners.
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6you sure are in a bad position. it's very unfortunate that you hadn't taken the time you needed to know for sure when you got involved. it's unfortunate because you'll either...
1. live the rest of your life not know 100% for sure what you want. this is unfair to you and *him*
2. stay with him longer and then finally decide you need to learn more about yourself, but not before having to destroy everything you've built together.
3. cheat on him. as easy as this may seem, this is the most deceptive in it's damaging nature. don't do it. hopefully you will never completely understand why.
4. HONESTY. be honest with yourself. be honest with him that you weren't yet ready for a commitment. this is a very seriosu issue. It keeps you from knowing 100% what you want, and less than 100% will never cut it in a relationship. you had gotten involved before you knew yourself. that's no way to live. If it were him thinking the same thing, what would you want him to do? You need to FREE yourself and be honest. don't be afraid. you should never feel guilty about your desires and curiosities. Sure you may end up losing him, then being with a girl and feeling repulsed by it, and then feeling that you've lost something really great. But life goes on.. and you will get what you want but next time equipped to fully enjoy it.
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7sounds like #5 thinks you're a dude.
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8you are a dude!
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9One word. Threesome.
Seriously, isn't a threesome with two chicks every guy's dream?
I would totally do a threesome and my man's all for it too :)
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10Well, it sounds like you are in a serious relationship. But, maybe you should ask your man if he wants to experiment with woman too. If he does, you guys could have a threesome, or experiment with different girls seperately.
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11www.thousands.cntrade.org
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12www.newsosaur.com
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