Being a fat girl
it sucks, it totally, totally sucks. i know there are big girls who are proud of their curves, and that i shouldnt spend my life feeling as shitty about my weight as i do, but... too late? i dont want to walk in anywhere first because i dont want people to think "ah, just another fat girl". its completely beyond my realm of thinking that a boy would ever, ever, ever think im even moderately attractive. and that, my friends, is a super shitty feeling. & you know what? no matter what anyone says, we are just jealous of you thin girls. i mean, yeah, ya know what, curves can be beautiful. just like thin girls are beautiful. and luckily for them, the rest of america agrees with them. yeah, we give out because its an ego booster. if you pay attention to me, ill go home with you in a heartbeat. they are right, fat girls are the easiest.
im not obese, im chubby, and even this fucking sucks.
thats all.
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1Don't be so down on yourself. People who really respect you and care for you don't do so because of physical appearance. And you will find a guy who loves you for every part of you, not just your weight. I'm a guy by the way.
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2You are a worthwhile person, and the people who cannot see that dont deserve to be part of your life.
i also am afraid to walk into new situations and places, because of the way that I look but I have many male friends telling me I look great, and have more cushion for the pushin' and they appreciate me as a person, the outside packaging is a bonus -
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3But its not just what men think, dont ever think you have to change yourself for other people and you know what? there is someone for everyone, and they will want you for you, not for what you look like - trust me,
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4Ps:
only a dog wants a bone lollolol
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5Or a stick lol
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6You know, there is a happy medium between a bone/stick and chubby.
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7Losing weight isn't that hard. Change your diet and do push ups and crunches during the commercials when you watch TV. You'll see results pretty quickly. Good luck.
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8This is going to sound cheesy so be warned. Your problems will end when you find yourself attractive. You value as a person is not defined by your weight OR by what people think of you but what you think of you.
There are fewer things that make a woman more attractive than making us feel privileged to be just standing beside her.
Eventually, these skin an bone chicks outer beauty is going to fade and unfortunately if outer beauty is all they had going for them all there lives, the later years will be very unfriendly.
Hang in there. There are decent guys out there that do think deeper than bikinis, fake hair, and lip injections.
A note to the skinny/fit: Make sure that you do all you do for yourself and not of what others think of you. A strong mind is key.
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9Lose weight you fat pig.
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10just remember that skinny girls feel like they're too skinny or something else is wrong with them. no one feels good about themselves thanks to society pushing all these ideas into our heads
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11I'm actually attracted to girls who are a little chubby. If you can't lose weight, find a guy who likes the weight. I bet you're pretty.
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12you know why most guys dont want you? Because there is no surprise. They already know what you you sound like during sex. They heard you huffing and puffing after walking up that one flight of stairs
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13wow, i honestly wasnt expecting a single nice response, just ones about being a fat pig (oh hey, thats there too!), so, even though i dont know any of you, thanks for your kind words.
i think its kind of a catch 22 for me. although im fully aware that a boy wont make me all of a sudden so happy with myself or anything, its so hard to think that i am pretty and worthy, etc. when i have nothing to prove otherwise, if that makes sense? like, i know i have an awesome personality, and that im a great friend, and im kind (& ya know, generally amazing), but ive always felt like people are saying things like "she COULD be so pretty..." & thats a pretty shitty feeling too.
anyway, im rambling. i just wanted to say thank you for all your nice things that i wasnt expecting at all.
(also, i live on the third floor & have no problem walking up and down those stairs a couple times a day, thank you.)
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14wow. so you werent expecting one nice comment, and yet you posted anyway? What you are saying is that not only are you a glutten in the traditional sense, but you are also a glutten for punishment
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15i was venting, ya know... how its the purpose of the website? weird how i would do that.
yeah, i didnt expect anything nice. read any of the rants about fat girls, and youll know why i didnt expect any nice comments.
but, definitely definitely thank you for being one of the responses i expected.
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