Love and guys

I am just SO DISAPPOINTED!! I got all stupid and excited about this great guy because I felt connected to him and I thought we shared a special bond. I really thought I had found a special guy this time. You told me things like "don't worry I'm a nice guy" or "don't you think that it's strange how alike we are in many ways?". We had our first date last Monday and I was so happy. I thought it was perfect. I really liked you and this evening with you was so special to me. But then why, why, W-H-Y are you suddenly so distant? Why don't you care anymore? I mean, can't you just tell me you're not intersted anymore? Is it funnier to make me wait ? Do you find it entertaining to leave me like that? It's so much more painful to have to figure it out by myself rather than you telling me clearly.
I'm so sick of hoping and then be disappointed. I'm done. FUCK YOU!

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  • 1
    Sarah Jessica Parker? Is that you?

    Posted 4 months ago | Report
  • 2
    Just had a similar experience and am about to post a rant about it. At least your guy took you out on a date - mine completely stood me up.

    Posted 4 months ago | Report
  • 3
    "Don't worry I'm a nice guy."

    Should have been your first clue. Classic line. And you got all stupid and excited about him after 1 date? STOP THAT. You want us to pine over you, don't let us know you like us. I'm not saying be a bitch, but don't get all starry - eyed during the first week of dating, makes us think you have daddy issues or something. Kind of creeps us out. We'll run every time.

    Posted 4 months ago | Report
  • 4
    Yeah, now you know how a lot of men, such myself feel. I've set incredibly high standards because I'm tired of wasting time on idiots that want to fuck around and end up getting divorced with kids several years later because of their idiocy. I advise you to follow my approach. Either you'll find someone that isn't a sack of shit or you'll be alright with your porn. Win-win either way.

    Posted 4 months ago | Report
  • 5
    To 2: Thanks it's nice to know I'm not the only girl who gets let down like this!!

    To 3: It was our first date but we've been talking a lot and getting quite close for a month now!! Don't think I got excited and stupid about him to quickly! But thanks for youre advice now I'm playing hard to get with him ;)

    To 4: I haven't had anything serious for two years now and it's getting harder and harder for me to keep my high standards to be honest!!

    Posted 4 months ago | Report
  • 6
    Take it from an older gal -- stop trying so hard. Get involved in activities that allow you to shine (volunteer, help in your community). You will so busy making a better you and THEN you will meet some great people.

    Posted 4 months ago | Report

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