Hate my father so much
I hate my father. and yes I know, hate is a strong word. and I hate him with passion! I've hated him since I was about 8. I'm the middle child, and you know what they say about middle child syndrome? well its true! (at least in my family) I get rag on for the littlest of things while my bro and sis can get away with almost anything. I hate his incessant nagging and the negative vibe that he gives out. He constantly talks with this angry voice of his, and worse recently he's been fighting with my mom's side and now we're all forbidden to visit our cousin and a particular aunt and uncle. do you know how awkward it is to attend a family gathering when your dad is the one who sorts of stirs shit up in the family? DAMMIT, and I hate how my parents constantly fight sometimes. I think they've planned to divorce like a million times yet they never go through with it. They don't understand how much damage that can do to a child. First you tell everyone that you're splitting up and then next week its 'oh its worse if we split up' like what the fuck! i've been praying for your divorce since god knows when. like omg just end the torture and split up already. If it werent for my dad, I wouldnt get this bouts of low self-esteem now and then, and I wouldnt be so pressured to churn out those dumbass straight A grades that he expects all the time. And I dont get why they're so against me being a vet. "No you have to be a doctor. Because a doctor is a noble profession" Well fuck you. So, being a vet aint noble? Your patients cant talk for fucks sake and you're helping them. tell me whose job is more noble? who gives a shit anyway. i hate him. i dont wish for him to die. but just to vanish off the face of this earth? Is that too much to ask?
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1Well, at least the preparation for being a vet is pretty similar to that for being a doctor, until you get into college. And by then you'll be an adult and can do whatever the hell you want. Just put some distance between you and him as soon as you legally can, get that self-esteem back and become what YOU want. If your dad was any kind of parent he'd be proud of you for that and not for submitting to his will all the time.
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2My parents fought a lot and threatened to get divorced all the time when I was a kid. I wish they would have just done it but instead they stayed together for the "sake of the kids" and put us through hell instead. However, now that I'm older and wiser and my father has passed away, I can tell you that I realize he really wasn't such a bad father and I miss him. Hate isn't just a strong word, it's a strong emotion and one which is very draining. My best suggestion is to ease off on the argument about being a vet and just go to college letting them think you're planning on going to med school. It's going to be a few years before you have to decide whether to be a doctor or a vet and by then you'll be moved out and they'll have to live with your decision.
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3Ha, I posted at the same moment as #1 and basically said the same thing. It wasn't my intention to be a parrot.
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4Great minds think alike. ;)
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5Yeah, thanks guys. you both give great advice. and I guess I just needed to hear that. Alright, so first degree homicide is out of the question then. Can't wait til I go to college and get the heck out of this house!!!! :DD im going in this year anyways. so AWESOME
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6being a vet is harder than being a doctor. a doctor can ask a patient what is wrong with them and then do the research.. plus the human anatomy is exactly the same in every case. a vet has to learn the anatomy of dozens of different animals, and must cope with discovering the problem of the animal without asking them "so, what's wrong today?"
keep your head up, kid. if you have the luxury of going to college when you get older, take it; go away, study hard, and have some fun while youre at it. and as far as the assholes in your life go.. leave 'em. you already have one and one is more than enough ;)
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7oh, and added from the above post..
he is your father. he's could just be pissed off with his own current situation so don't take things to heart. and don't ostricize him from your life.. tell him and your mother how you feel - but think about this before you do it. just my two cents.
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8lol you don't know my father. This isn't ordinary teenage angst - trust me.. well maybe a little. but if you live with this man, you'd understand WHY i'm like this. but yeah I understand what you meant about being a vet. It's a lot more to handle. I realize. but thanks
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9Your heart can tell you what you want, but you have to depend on your brain to get you there! Don't let emotions immobilize you, turn them into choices! We all had "parental" issues growing up, don't focus on his negative behavior, focus on the rest of YOUR life! Every minute you spend upset, angry, or depressed about the way he treats you is time wasted and he wins! We only live once. Keep your head up and be a vet! That is VERY admirable!
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10hi i hate my dad so much ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
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11I love my father.
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12I lvoe my uncle's ticklish feet, and I really love male feet tickling and I think it is the best thing in the world. I tickled my father, uncles, and also my cousine's feet, and I really enjoyed it. ticklish hot young male feet. I love male hot young TICKLISH feet. what about you. I really loe to tickle them when they are sleep, and then they will laugh when they are sleeping, because they feet are so so ticklish.
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13I hate my father than any other kid which I know. I think that my father is the worls person in the world. he is so crazy. I think that he accept any thing which I say. I thinkl he is the wors. I think all of the kids who say thayt I hate my father are right. because I het my father so much.
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14dont worry. my father is the same, has never accepted me for who I am. constantly criticises me and has never once complimented me or accepted me. I was forced to study a degree i didnt want, and used to get chronic low self-esteem and depression, I was shy and couldnt go for what i wanted (whether it was MY personal dreams or goals, or a girl, or a prize). However, by releasing all of my anger through emotional-release excercises this has helped. i also recommend you read John Lee's 'expressing and experiencing anger' and his other book 'growing yourself back up' these books saved my life, please read them then do the exercises, i wish you the best. i feel your pain. It took me 1 year to overcome the majority of my issues after reading John lee's books, and now i finally feel healthy and happy and confident.
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15I think you are a very good person who wrote for me. I think thst my fsther is the worse and I have to do something for mysalf and him. he won't ever listen to me, and he thinks that I am stupid. he think thst he is doing too much for me, and also I thank you recomend. do you know? I wish that my fathe become better, anyway, I will go to college few more years, and I will feel better. he told me that I will not be any thing in college, and I will be like one of my cousins who just got a license from his college. I hatewhen he told me this, and also I felt very bad and also dissapointed. I thought that I am nothing. did you read other one's comments? all of the bad words. but you are not. I think you are a very good person. don't worry, you father love you, adn also your mother, and they want you the best, because of this, they wanted you to go to get the job which is better. I really don't know you situation, but I think that I got who you are about little. with you writing, I thinl that you have better situation from other ones. now, I would recomend you something, go and talk to your father, ask him which child does he want? also say to him that he must not compair you with any one else, becasue you are you, and other ones have a different situation. be sure that he loves you and he doesn't want any thing ba dfor you. OK, now, if you read my massage, please help me because I think this is good to have other one's idea for our life. please if you read my massage, write me another massage, and I will check this site again.
Than you very much for you helping!
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