Help Me Please
this guy i was with for 2 years was the best boyfriend i'd ever had who turned out to be not at all who i thought he was, and even though i KNOW this, i still can't shake myself from feeling how i feel about him. i'm head over heels in love with him. however, he's lied to me about numerous things, he's hid so many secrets from me, he's abused drugs behind my back without my knowledge and i found all of these things out after seperating from him. we split because our arguments were one right after the other and i couldn't take it anymore. he's done the whole "i miss you and i want you back" thing, but i told him i dont want anything to do with him. of course thats not true because when i don't hear from him i'll call him to see how he is. we're constantly back and forth, its been 3 months since our split and since we've seen eachother face to face. but what do i do? im crazy about him inspite of all the things i know i wouldnt tolerate if it was anyone else. i'm going crazy thinking about all the wrongdoing he did during our relationship and how he hid it. i know i cant trust him anymore, but i cant stop myself from wanting to be with him still. do i just need a serious slap across the face or should i let him explain himself fully to understand why he acted this way and take him back? if i could go into specific detail about what our relationship was like and the extensive list of all the things we've been through together -good and bad-, i would but that would take forever. he's such an important person in my life, but could i forgive him?
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1What possible long-term benefit could there be in resuming any relationship with this loser? You can certainly do better than HIM, just move on.
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2You sound like me when I was 21 and in love with my first husband. I married him despite what I knew. It ended in divorce after our daughter was born. It isn't worth the pain.. I still loved him lonnnng after we split but the abuse didn't stop and I forced myself to move on.
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3I'd say you need the slap across the face. You need a clean break. No more going back and forth with this guy. Cut him completely off it's the only way to get over it. It's never easy.
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4Waaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! Shaddup, already.
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5God, women are all the same. They get involved with assholes, and then complain to everyone around them about how they're dating an asshole. However, they stay with said asshole anyway because they are totally incapable of rational thought.
Makes me wish I was gay.
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6first i would like to point out that you have no self respect. and since you have no self respect, this MAN(?) obviously doesn't respect you either.
you are abusing yourself by actually thinking this guy is worth anything...
do unto yourself as you would have them do unto you.
Posted 4 days ago | Report