Crush on a pro athlete
I'm in my mid twenties, I've been in a stable relationship with my boyfriend for about 2 years, who I live with and who really wants to get married lately, and for the last few months I've been infatuated with a certain pro athlete. I've pretty much despised all celebrities and pro athletes before this. My bf knows I'm not happy with the relationship, but he's doing everything he can to keep me.So, I'm a young, beautiful, intelligent girl with a nice body and an advanced degree in a difficult scientific field with a bright future. I'm not some loser with nothing better to do or no other prospective boyfriends. I just don't want any of them, nor am I attracted to my bf anymore.
I figured it would pass, but no. It's gotten stronger. I have learned where he lives, and now I hang out at his favorite restaurants and places near where he lives (not to his place, obviously), which I go to in hopes of seeing him.
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Wow, stalkerish imo.....
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Just go dig your gold already. Screw around, and when you're 30 or older with kids and divorced you'll realize why everyone needs to take responsibility with their emotions and engagements; not do things like get into a relationship and then hang around when you shouldn't due to a lack of feelings and have a childish crush.
I hope you're proud of yourself. People like you are the ones that sow mistrust and bitterness everywhere. I feel sorry for the man you're dating (he isn't a friend when you treat him like some object you can use and abuse and act like he has to keep you).
Oh, and you're not intelligent when you allow yourself to behave like some horny schoolgirl/stalker. Discipline your mind; control your emotions.
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i agree with 2.
you may be intelligent in your field of study but now you just come off as a selfish, horny, biatch.
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I understand waht 2 is saying and I mostly agree. But if you're not attracted to him and the relationship isn't working let him go. It's kinder to end it before you go farther if you don't love him. Let your bf have a chance to find the person who will look at him like you look at your crush
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5
Being young, pretty, and having a nice body is subjective. I would probably think you are an ugly miserable whore without an original thought.
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lol #5 u rule man
-trolls unite!
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Hey, its totally normal to get "infatuated" with people. It happens to us all at one point, or another. What you have to realize is, its just a phase, and when it is over, you are going to feel so stupid! I have had infatuations myself, but later, I was like OMG! what was I thinking!>? so now, I dont let that happen to me. Its never worth it. Your not stupid, it happens to everybody. It is just a stupid situation.
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yeah youre a tramp
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Wow, stalkerish imo.....Posted 4 months ago | Report
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Just go dig your gold already. Screw around, and when you're 30 or older with kids and divorced you'll realize why everyone needs to take responsibility with their emotions and engagements; not do things like get into a relationship and then hang around when you shouldn't due to a lack of feelings and have a childish crush. I hope you're proud of yourself. People like you are the ones that sow mistrust and bitterness everywhere. I feel sorry for the man you're dating (he isn't a friend when you treat him like some object you can use and abuse and act like he has to keep you).
Oh, and you're not intelligent when you allow yourself to behave like some horny schoolgirl/stalker. Discipline your mind; control your emotions.
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i agree with 2. you may be intelligent in your field of study but now you just come off as a selfish, horny, biatch.
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I understand waht 2 is saying and I mostly agree. But if you're not attracted to him and the relationship isn't working let him go. It's kinder to end it before you go farther if you don't love him. Let your bf have a chance to find the person who will look at him like you look at your crushPosted 4 months ago | Report
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Being young, pretty, and having a nice body is subjective. I would probably think you are an ugly miserable whore without an original thought.Posted 4 months ago | Report
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lol #5 u rule man-trolls unite!
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Hey, its totally normal to get "infatuated" with people. It happens to us all at one point, or another. What you have to realize is, its just a phase, and when it is over, you are going to feel so stupid! I have had infatuations myself, but later, I was like OMG! what was I thinking!>? so now, I dont let that happen to me. Its never worth it. Your not stupid, it happens to everybody. It is just a stupid situation.Posted 4 months ago | Report
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yeah youre a trampPosted 4 months ago | Report