I love my wife, but...
I yell at her too much and I don't know why. I don't yell at other people when I get mad, but for some reason she just pushes a button in me somewhere.Rating:0.00
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hey buddy, take it easy with your wife and get mad at your coworkers instead, you'll get to have sex with her more often.
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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Two possibilities: you abuse her as your way of relating, or you don't love her. Either learn to communicate in a different way, or tell her what the problem really is.
You communicate differently with her because she tolerates it. You have to bring yourself to communicate more patiently and gently if you love her: you have to stop tolerating it yourself.
The button you talk about is your predisposition towards her. For a moment, pretend she is not your wife, but someone you are courting. You treat her worse because you can, but not without guilt. Commit to your own standard, it sounds like you do love her. Be patient, gentle, and empathetic. Treat her as you would a baby, she's yours.
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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That was a nice thoughtful and well presented reply, thanks. I do love her, so I need to find out why I feel the need to be abusive towards her.
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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Dude............. What the fuck are you thinking? This is your best freind for all of time. you should get down on your knees and say a prayer thanking GOD. for sending her to share your sorry assed life. When all in life fails around you, quess who will be standing at your side shoveliing away the shit that life dictates you eat each day? And to think this person wants your BABY???
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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sometimes arguements can be a sign of strength in a relationship... you're not worried about it turning sour. But don't give up...
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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It's all about power. You are struggling to maintain it or gain it. You gotta pick your battles, man
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If you yell at her, you're the problem.
Posted 8 months ago | Report
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I used to do the exact same thing. My parents did the same thing. It was like you could come home and show your true self and vent. My beautiful dear wife heroiclly put up with my abuse for 23 years. Now she's sleeping with my best friend. Don't cock this up man. Make a decision, seek counseling and change, otherwise she won't be around.
Posted 6 months ago | Report
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hey buddy, take it easy with your wife and get mad at your coworkers instead, you'll get to have sex with her more often.Posted 1 year ago | Report
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Two possibilities: you abuse her as your way of relating, or you don't love her. Either learn to communicate in a different way, or tell her what the problem really is. You communicate differently with her because she tolerates it. You have to bring yourself to communicate more patiently and gently if you love her: you have to stop tolerating it yourself.
The button you talk about is your predisposition towards her. For a moment, pretend she is not your wife, but someone you are courting. You treat her worse because you can, but not without guilt. Commit to your own standard, it sounds like you do love her. Be patient, gentle, and empathetic. Treat her as you would a baby, she's yours.
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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That was a nice thoughtful and well presented reply, thanks. I do love her, so I need to find out why I feel the need to be abusive towards her.Posted 1 year ago | Report
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Dude............. What the fuck are you thinking? This is your best freind for all of time. you should get down on your knees and say a prayer thanking GOD. for sending her to share your sorry assed life. When all in life fails around you, quess who will be standing at your side shoveliing away the shit that life dictates you eat each day? And to think this person wants your BABY???Posted 1 year ago | Report
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sometimes arguements can be a sign of strength in a relationship... you're not worried about it turning sour. But don't give up...Posted 1 year ago | Report
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It's all about power. You are struggling to maintain it or gain it. You gotta pick your battles, manPosted 1 year ago | Report
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If you yell at her, you're the problem.Posted 8 months ago | Report
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I used to do the exact same thing. My parents did the same thing. It was like you could come home and show your true self and vent. My beautiful dear wife heroiclly put up with my abuse for 23 years. Now she's sleeping with my best friend. Don't cock this up man. Make a decision, seek counseling and change, otherwise she won't be around.Posted 6 months ago | Report
