The little things...
Now i'm not saying i'm fat by any means like every other girl out there. But i am very displeased with what my boyfriend told me the other day and stress has just been building up and i cried for almost three hours straight today, and i don't cry like that often.So the other day we were talking about different things we could do to improve our 'personal being' and blah blah blah. I am all for the idea of improving... but what he said made me furious!
I've been trying to lose that 'extra couple of pounds' mind you i'm only 119 but i have just one problem area.
so as we're talking he says...
I just liked it better when you had your 'other look; [my other look being longer hair (that was only one inch longer than it is now) and my facial piercings (which i wanted back anyway so i repierced them] but seriously does hair really make that much of a difference... i didnt dye it dramatically or cut it really different. AHHH! and then he said... "and maybe lose a couple of pounds?" as if hes asking me to making it seem like my choice.
may i mind you this boy NEVER works out! ever! and hes skinny as a rail... i do a six mile jog every Saturday and workout on the side too.
I don't know... the FUCKING MEDIA has the world zombified to think you have to be 34 pounds and it makes me angry... FURIOUS! am i the only one who this this is wrong!?!?
now i love him to death, but what he said really hurt, and i told him, but i just don't know how to take it.
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I say dump your boyfriend and give me a call, i would take 119 pounds anyday!
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It's not the media. Being unhealthy is unhealthy. If you have problem areas, work on them. Don't give me this media bullshit.
Don't tell me you don't snack on poptarts or some treat you love sometimes before you go to bed..
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Holy shit. 119 pounds is 53kg... i'm 63kg.
way to make me feel like crap!
he's a loser.
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Ya he sounds like one of those controlling assholes who wants to change everything about you. Dump him. And for the record #2 do you even know what 119lbs looks like?
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You're right, I didn't think 119 lbs looks like. The only reason you should lose weight in this case is if you're short short and have extra pudge on your stomach (girls are supposed to have some.. It's bad if they don't.. But if it's bulging over your belt it's a different story).
Hell... The weight doesn't even matter.. Just don't get problem areas. It's sad to say, but even if you're "in shape".. If you have some problem area.. It can ruin attraction a little bit.
The way he said it does sound pretty bad.. You should probably dump him.
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How tall r u
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#1, what if that 119 lbs came in a 3'6" package? Would you take it then?
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I'm 5 foot 4 1/2
for thoes who asked.
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What an absolute cunt!
Just pick out everything he's insecure about and throw it in his face then tell him that's how he made you feel
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Just face it OP, you're fat!
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Your BF is an asshole! You should NEVER change anything about you for anyone else but YOURSELF. Go find a man who will love, accept and RESPECT you for who you are. Weight doesn't make the woman.
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Weight DOES make the woman, and it's because it represents her thoughts on taking of herself...
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I think that you shouldnt let it bother you. you seem perfectly healthy and prob the only reason ur bf only wants more. and i guess hes just going to want more.... And more.... And more.
yikes.
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I say dump your boyfriend and give me a call, i would take 119 pounds anyday!Posted 2 months ago | Report
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It's not the media. Being unhealthy is unhealthy. If you have problem areas, work on them. Don't give me this media bullshit. Don't tell me you don't snack on poptarts or some treat you love sometimes before you go to bed..
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Holy shit. 119 pounds is 53kg... i'm 63kg.way to make me feel like crap!
he's a loser.
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Ya he sounds like one of those controlling assholes who wants to change everything about you. Dump him. And for the record #2 do you even know what 119lbs looks like?Posted 2 months ago | Report
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You're right, I didn't think 119 lbs looks like. The only reason you should lose weight in this case is if you're short short and have extra pudge on your stomach (girls are supposed to have some.. It's bad if they don't.. But if it's bulging over your belt it's a different story).Hell... The weight doesn't even matter.. Just don't get problem areas. It's sad to say, but even if you're "in shape".. If you have some problem area.. It can ruin attraction a little bit.
The way he said it does sound pretty bad.. You should probably dump him.
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How tall r uPosted 2 months ago | Report
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#1, what if that 119 lbs came in a 3'6" package? Would you take it then?Posted 2 months ago | Report
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I'm 5 foot 4 1/2for thoes who asked.
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What an absolute cunt!Just pick out everything he's insecure about and throw it in his face then tell him that's how he made you feel
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Just face it OP, you're fat!Posted 2 months ago | Report
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Your BF is an asshole! You should NEVER change anything about you for anyone else but YOURSELF. Go find a man who will love, accept and RESPECT you for who you are. Weight doesn't make the woman.Posted 2 months ago | Report
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Weight DOES make the woman, and it's because it represents her thoughts on taking of herself...Posted 2 months ago | Report
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I think that you shouldnt let it bother you. you seem perfectly healthy and prob the only reason ur bf only wants more. and i guess hes just going to want more.... And more.... And more.yikes.
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