Nice guys?
FUCK. I'm the nice guy. I want this girl so bad, I love her, I would do anything for her. But I'm the nice guy. I've done everything I can think of, from friendly stuff to going out of my way to help her to putting myself in severely uncomfortable situations to make her happy. Why is it that I'm lodged so firmly on the 'friend' side of her brain when, from what I've heard, I would make such a good boyfriend? I've done all the work a boyfriend does with non of the benefits they reap. Fuck my life.Rating:0.00
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Hahaha.... You are trying way too fucking hard. You are needy and you need to show her you are fine on your own. Stop doing shit for her, for real. Girls never like that initially.
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^the above poster is right, even though I fall into the same catergory as you do. It sucks, I know. Remember this, 'the one who cares least wins' (in most cases).
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As a girl, we're usually aware that a guy friend is interested, but if we're ignoring it, it's probably because we're just not interested. It could be for whatever reason, but there's a good chance there just isn't any chemistry. I date the "nice guys" a lot, but sometimes it's better to be with a guy with whom you've got explosive chemistry.
After all those things you've done, odds are she knows you're interested, but probably feels awkward about it. How would you feel if a female friend was always doing crazy things to try to impress you, or sacrificing her own happiness for yours? You'd probably be kind of creeped out.
If you think you'd be a great boyfriend, maybe show her you could be, but with someone else. Competition grabs our interest rather quickly.
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^ she said it, the whole competition thing, just shows how petty girls really are..... reminds me of when one infant has a toy and the other wants it just for the sake of the other not having it......
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It's not petty, considering men are often in it more for competition than we are, and that's only part of it.
P. S. 3, thanks for being a sexist blockhead and outright trying to infantilize me. I feel terribly for any woman in your life.
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Owned.
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10,000 battered women, and I've been eating mine plain for all these years?
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Stop doing things for her. Now play the gay thing and maybe she will want to bent that nail back! LOL
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I completely understand your situation, its suck because I'm in it too. However, I have one reccomendation that's helped me enjoy things much more : ecstasy!
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^Hope you're kidding 9. Decent girls don't dig dudes with holes in their brain.
To the OP, just stop being nice. That alone will cause her to notice you more than she currently is. Make confident conversation when appropriate but NEVER, EVER go out of your way until you are dating someone. And even then, wait at least until you are banging her often and you both agree you want to have a relationship. Because if you're too nice, she'll take you for granted and look elsewhere for the asshole that most of them seem to love.
Or after you're dating a while, OCCASIONALLY doing nice things will make them seem so much more special that she'll be so grateful that you'll probably get some. I know that it doesn't make sense, but it actually works out better for us.
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Just dont try as hard. Do what u can but dont go out the way to help. Act as if you have a life of your own she will come around. Or maybe its just not meant 2 be.
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I'm a girl who always went for the bad boys and assholes and now i'm with a nice guy nd couldn't be happier stop doin everythin for her us women hate that. my guy only does things when i ask and if ur so in love with her what benifits do u want coz if its the sex then u can't love her as much as u say u do coz sex itsn't everythin in a relationship its the little thingz
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Whatever 12!... Dude once you're in the "friend" list.. forget it. Play other fields, girls are plenty. Don't do nice shit for any girl till you are married. In the mean time get as much tail as possible. Act like you don't care.. treat girls like a dude.. and they will start to wonder why a "girl like them" is not getting your full attention... then they fall right where you want them... and do it over again to other chicks.
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Tell her you're either A. seeing someone new and fabulous or B. thinking about moving to a different city. It'll drive her nuts and she won't want you to get away.
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You know what your problem is? You placing the pussy on a pedestal!
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Hahaha.... You are trying way too fucking hard. You are needy and you need to show her you are fine on your own. Stop doing shit for her, for real. Girls never like that initially.Posted 1 month ago | Report
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^the above poster is right, even though I fall into the same catergory as you do. It sucks, I know. Remember this, 'the one who cares least wins' (in most cases).Posted 1 month ago | Report
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As a girl, we're usually aware that a guy friend is interested, but if we're ignoring it, it's probably because we're just not interested. It could be for whatever reason, but there's a good chance there just isn't any chemistry. I date the "nice guys" a lot, but sometimes it's better to be with a guy with whom you've got explosive chemistry.After all those things you've done, odds are she knows you're interested, but probably feels awkward about it. How would you feel if a female friend was always doing crazy things to try to impress you, or sacrificing her own happiness for yours? You'd probably be kind of creeped out.
If you think you'd be a great boyfriend, maybe show her you could be, but with someone else. Competition grabs our interest rather quickly.
Posted 1 month ago | Report
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^ she said it, the whole competition thing, just shows how petty girls really are..... reminds me of when one infant has a toy and the other wants it just for the sake of the other not having it......Posted 1 month ago | Report
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It's not petty, considering men are often in it more for competition than we are, and that's only part of it. P. S. 3, thanks for being a sexist blockhead and outright trying to infantilize me. I feel terribly for any woman in your life.
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Owned.Posted 1 month ago | Report
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10,000 battered women, and I've been eating mine plain for all these years?Posted 1 month ago | Report
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Stop doing things for her. Now play the gay thing and maybe she will want to bent that nail back! LOLPosted 1 month ago | Report
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I completely understand your situation, its suck because I'm in it too. However, I have one reccomendation that's helped me enjoy things much more : ecstasy!Posted 1 month ago | Report
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^Hope you're kidding 9. Decent girls don't dig dudes with holes in their brain. To the OP, just stop being nice. That alone will cause her to notice you more than she currently is. Make confident conversation when appropriate but NEVER, EVER go out of your way until you are dating someone. And even then, wait at least until you are banging her often and you both agree you want to have a relationship. Because if you're too nice, she'll take you for granted and look elsewhere for the asshole that most of them seem to love.
Or after you're dating a while, OCCASIONALLY doing nice things will make them seem so much more special that she'll be so grateful that you'll probably get some. I know that it doesn't make sense, but it actually works out better for us.
Posted 1 month ago | Report
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Just dont try as hard. Do what u can but dont go out the way to help. Act as if you have a life of your own she will come around. Or maybe its just not meant 2 be.Posted 1 month ago | Report
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I'm a girl who always went for the bad boys and assholes and now i'm with a nice guy nd couldn't be happier stop doin everythin for her us women hate that. my guy only does things when i ask and if ur so in love with her what benifits do u want coz if its the sex then u can't love her as much as u say u do coz sex itsn't everythin in a relationship its the little thingzPosted 1 month ago | Report
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Whatever 12!... Dude once you're in the "friend" list.. forget it. Play other fields, girls are plenty. Don't do nice shit for any girl till you are married. In the mean time get as much tail as possible. Act like you don't care.. treat girls like a dude.. and they will start to wonder why a "girl like them" is not getting your full attention... then they fall right where you want them... and do it over again to other chicks.Posted 1 month ago | Report
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Tell her you're either A. seeing someone new and fabulous or B. thinking about moving to a different city. It'll drive her nuts and she won't want you to get away.Posted 1 month ago | Report
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You know what your problem is? You placing the pussy on a pedestal!Posted 1 month ago | Report
