Bad husbands
I am a very pissed off mother.. i have a 3 month old baby with a few small problems and i can't get my husband to help me out.. at this point in time i'm ready to kill his ass all he cares about when he gets home from work is eating, computer and then bed.. god DAMN FUCKER WHEN DO I GET TO RELAX AND GET A BREAK.. by the way i'd never kill anyone i'd leave his ass first and i'm ready to do it and find me a guy that is willing to help me..Rating:5.00
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At first glance he sounds like a lazy fuck but then I want to ask, what does he do for a living? how many hours does he work? How about you? Do you work also or are you a stay at home mom? I know my wife works way harder than I do but we also have our own jobs around the house. My job isn't cooking, cleaning, or laundry. Maybe you need to give him some specific things that are his to do, if he doesn't do them, no more beer!
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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Blowjobs work better then beer.
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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Hey sweetheart, I know it's a hard thought to grasp, but men are hardwired differently. He feels since you are the at home mom, his job is to provide the food on the table and all that other fun stuff. Just like the first comment stated, give him a list of things to help you with and if he doesn't do them, tell him to get off of his ass and help you and if that still does not produce any results, find someone else that will......
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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"give him a list of things to help you with and if he doesn't do them, tell him to get off of his ass and help you and if that still does not produce any results, find someone else that will......"
Make sure to add as much as possible to the list so you can just sit on your ass all day long.
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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He goes to work to support your lazy housewife bon bon eating fat ass, and all you do when he gets home is bitch. I give it about a month until he finds someone better
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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Don't worry about it, all your bitching and whining he's already got some whore bent over a cheap hotel chair plowing her no bitching snatch.
Posted 11 months ago | Report
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You didn't elaborate on what your 3-month-old's "few small problems" were, but maybe your husband just reached the point of overload where he feels like nothing he does could make things any better. Mothers aren't the only ones to have postpartum psychological issues. When we had our child, the hospital told us about a support group for just such issues. Might be worth looking into, for the child's sake at least.
Posted 11 months ago | Report
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Fuck him, if he isn't helping you out he's not living up to being a Father. He should know to help, it called nature!! He could make the baby, so he should help take care of you and the child. I hope your baby is well.
Posted 10 months ago | Report
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Men don't understand how hard it is to look after a baby, do they?
Tell you what, install a gong in your bedroom so that every time the baby wakes you up, he wakes up too.
Oh, and give him a few chores around the house to help out with too. No job is so hard that he can get you knocked up but can't spare a few minutes to at least give you a fricken shoulder massage and give the baby a bottle. Or at least cook his own fricken meal!
Posted 5 months ago | Report
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I read your post... I would say that you need some help from a therapist.
Find a guy to help you leave your current guy..
ya that always works great
and the cycle continues..
even with a child you can still be free from a man and alright.. until you are ok with yourself you will continue to get stepped on.
Posted 4 months ago | Report
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Hmmm... you could try leaving the baby with him one full day, if you trust him enough with the kid, or trust yourself enough to stay away the entire day.
When my youngest was born, her father wouldn't go near her or touch her, wouldn't even look at her for almost six weeks. He was pissed because he thought I got preggers on purpose, as if, I just didn't have the heart to terminate the pregnancy. I was home, but I was so tired, 'cause the baby was sick (illness that she has thankfully outgrown). I was also helping my parents at the time, both of whom were sick too, on top of running a small farm and chofering the older kids to their school functions, so I was completely worn out. I did this 7 days a week, his job was only 5 days.
One morning early, I got up, wrote him a note, and left the house. It was terrifying for me 'cause I kept thinking bad things would happen to the kids, but I had to learn to let go of that fear, I mean, they were his kids too and I knew he wouldn't do anything on purpose to hurt them. I stayed away the entire day, and when I got back, he never said a word, but after that day, he helped me with the kids a little bit more, and especially with the baby.
I'm not saying it'll work, but it might, you could try.
Posted 1 month ago | Report
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At first glance he sounds like a lazy fuck but then I want to ask, what does he do for a living? how many hours does he work? How about you? Do you work also or are you a stay at home mom? I know my wife works way harder than I do but we also have our own jobs around the house. My job isn't cooking, cleaning, or laundry. Maybe you need to give him some specific things that are his to do, if he doesn't do them, no more beer!Posted 1 year ago | Report
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Blowjobs work better then beer.Posted 1 year ago | Report
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Hey sweetheart, I know it's a hard thought to grasp, but men are hardwired differently. He feels since you are the at home mom, his job is to provide the food on the table and all that other fun stuff. Just like the first comment stated, give him a list of things to help you with and if he doesn't do them, tell him to get off of his ass and help you and if that still does not produce any results, find someone else that will......Posted 1 year ago | Report
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"give him a list of things to help you with and if he doesn't do them, tell him to get off of his ass and help you and if that still does not produce any results, find someone else that will......"Make sure to add as much as possible to the list so you can just sit on your ass all day long.
Posted 1 year ago | Report
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He goes to work to support your lazy housewife bon bon eating fat ass, and all you do when he gets home is bitch. I give it about a month until he finds someone betterPosted 1 year ago | Report
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Don't worry about it, all your bitching and whining he's already got some whore bent over a cheap hotel chair plowing her no bitching snatch.Posted 11 months ago | Report
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You didn't elaborate on what your 3-month-old's "few small problems" were, but maybe your husband just reached the point of overload where he feels like nothing he does could make things any better. Mothers aren't the only ones to have postpartum psychological issues. When we had our child, the hospital told us about a support group for just such issues. Might be worth looking into, for the child's sake at least.Posted 11 months ago | Report
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Fuck him, if he isn't helping you out he's not living up to being a Father. He should know to help, it called nature!! He could make the baby, so he should help take care of you and the child. I hope your baby is well.Posted 10 months ago | Report
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Men don't understand how hard it is to look after a baby, do they?Tell you what, install a gong in your bedroom so that every time the baby wakes you up, he wakes up too.
Oh, and give him a few chores around the house to help out with too. No job is so hard that he can get you knocked up but can't spare a few minutes to at least give you a fricken shoulder massage and give the baby a bottle. Or at least cook his own fricken meal!
Posted 5 months ago | Report
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I read your post... I would say that you need some help from a therapist. Find a guy to help you leave your current guy..
ya that always works great
and the cycle continues..
even with a child you can still be free from a man and alright.. until you are ok with yourself you will continue to get stepped on.
Posted 4 months ago | Report
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Hmmm... you could try leaving the baby with him one full day, if you trust him enough with the kid, or trust yourself enough to stay away the entire day. When my youngest was born, her father wouldn't go near her or touch her, wouldn't even look at her for almost six weeks. He was pissed because he thought I got preggers on purpose, as if, I just didn't have the heart to terminate the pregnancy. I was home, but I was so tired, 'cause the baby was sick (illness that she has thankfully outgrown). I was also helping my parents at the time, both of whom were sick too, on top of running a small farm and chofering the older kids to their school functions, so I was completely worn out. I did this 7 days a week, his job was only 5 days.
One morning early, I got up, wrote him a note, and left the house. It was terrifying for me 'cause I kept thinking bad things would happen to the kids, but I had to learn to let go of that fear, I mean, they were his kids too and I knew he wouldn't do anything on purpose to hurt them. I stayed away the entire day, and when I got back, he never said a word, but after that day, he helped me with the kids a little bit more, and especially with the baby.
I'm not saying it'll work, but it might, you could try.
Posted 1 month ago | Report