Our non relationship
So i started seeing this guy just after thanksgiving. well by seeing i mean we met through friends and went out and i ended up back at his place. after that we started sleeping together a couple nights a week. we didnt see each other for all of Christmas but since then we can't get enough of each other. We hang out every single night, just for the sake of hanging out. We cuddle in front of our friends, and our latest thing is making dinner together.Problem is neither of us want to be in a relationship. I don't want a boyfriend, dont like the commitment. And he wants to be a bachelor the rest of his life. I don't get it. So i descided to hook up with this other dude last weekend, and he found out. Hes kinda pissed, but he came over tonight for dinner again.
FUCK...why can't sex occur without feelings getting involved. We've been seeing each other for 4 months now, the sex is great, and we know each other pretty well. I just don't know what we are. I'm at the point where i just want him to refer to me as his girlfriend!
P.s is it bad if the girls an inch taller then the guy?
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If you want to have a fuck buddy, you can't see them EVERY night. Jeez, of course it's gonna turn into a relationship then.
Or, you could just marry him, divorce him after a few years, and still have post-divorce sex. Like Dr. Cox in Scrubs.
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If you hang out just for the sake of hanging out it sounds like you like each other. Throw in sex and that's the definition of a relationship.
Posted 9 months ago | Report
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"P.s is it bad if the girls an inch taller then the guy?"
What difference does it make if you aren't a couple and you just want to hook up for sex?
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you're both very immature.. you think being in this open-whatever-you-call-it-relationship makes you all cool and whatever.
grow up.. if you like each other and are jealous of other people, get together.
if either of you only wants the sex and the other wants more.. get the fuck away from each other.
stop the mind games.. fool.
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Comment #4 is absolutely correct. You're pretty much an idiot and I would assume he is too.
And yeah, it's bad that you're an inch taller than him. Isn't that how everyone determines if a relationship is going to work?
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If you just want sex with no feelings involved, then you shouldn't be cuddling, making dinner together or hanging out every night. That is what a relationship is.
If you just want sex, you only see eachother late at night, you bump uglies and then leave. That way nobody gets attatched and no feeling are hurt.
BTW, you said at the begining you just want sex w/ no strings attatched but at the end you say you want him to call you his girl friend. Make up your mind. That's is what's wrong with women, they want to have their cake and eat it too.
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so you "cheated," he found out, and didn't "cheat" back? what a fucking moron
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cooking dinner together, cuddling, and so on makes it a relationship - all that is left is to actually say it to each other. jeeeeez you're immature.
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About the inch taller thing:
The taller she is, the closer he is to what he really wants. Food for thought.
Also, you are in a de facto relationship. That's the way it is, no matter what you call it.
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what's de facto mean?
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If you want to have a fuck buddy, you can't see them EVERY night. Jeez, of course it's gonna turn into a relationship then.Or, you could just marry him, divorce him after a few years, and still have post-divorce sex. Like Dr. Cox in Scrubs.
Posted 9 months ago | Report
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If you hang out just for the sake of hanging out it sounds like you like each other. Throw in sex and that's the definition of a relationship.Posted 9 months ago | Report
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"P.s is it bad if the girls an inch taller then the guy?"What difference does it make if you aren't a couple and you just want to hook up for sex?
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you're both very immature.. you think being in this open-whatever-you-call-it-relationship makes you all cool and whatever. grow up.. if you like each other and are jealous of other people, get together.
if either of you only wants the sex and the other wants more.. get the fuck away from each other.
stop the mind games.. fool.
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Comment #4 is absolutely correct. You're pretty much an idiot and I would assume he is too.And yeah, it's bad that you're an inch taller than him. Isn't that how everyone determines if a relationship is going to work?
Posted 9 months ago | Report
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If you just want sex with no feelings involved, then you shouldn't be cuddling, making dinner together or hanging out every night. That is what a relationship is.If you just want sex, you only see eachother late at night, you bump uglies and then leave. That way nobody gets attatched and no feeling are hurt.
BTW, you said at the begining you just want sex w/ no strings attatched but at the end you say you want him to call you his girl friend. Make up your mind. That's is what's wrong with women, they want to have their cake and eat it too.
Posted 9 months ago | Report
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so you "cheated," he found out, and didn't "cheat" back? what a fucking moronPosted 9 months ago | Report
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cooking dinner together, cuddling, and so on makes it a relationship - all that is left is to actually say it to each other. jeeeeez you're immature. Posted 9 months ago | Report
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About the inch taller thing:The taller she is, the closer he is to what he really wants. Food for thought.
Also, you are in a de facto relationship. That's the way it is, no matter what you call it.
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what's de facto mean?Posted 5 months ago | Report
