Being irrational
I admit, I can be quite irrational. Once I get to a certain point in an argument, my voice of reason is out the window. However, it takes me a long time and many built up frustrations to get to that point. So this is my pissy frustration. My fiance, a man, has always felt women are so irrational, moody, ignorant etc. And if we a women could consistently stay controlled, guys wouldn't then lose their cool. He feels that the only time he feels is a jerk is when I'm acting basically like a brainless freak. That pisses me off. There are so many times he for no reason starts nit picking, or just being a brat. I usually don't let it get to me. Sometimes he seems to want to get a rise and he's not, so he pushes more. If I say anything then that's where my hell hegins. Talk about irrational. He can act as crazy as the rest of us. He says the most messed up hurtful things. So my point, our irrationals and emotions may be expressed differently but we both can do it. Not just me the "crazy girlfriend" I know he loves me. And there are the times he admits i'm easy going, and good for him. But, good to the point he knows I'd put up w/ anything. I am always coming up w/ simple wys to improve our conflict resolution. It seems so easy. But his strategy seems to be.. that no changes need to be made because well, guys are from mars and women are from way the hell over there. Wherever there is. So unless I change my gender, and that's a big no thanks, I'm always going to be the underlying reason for any issue that we may have
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If he seems to think you are always the cause of any "issues," then I am not sure I'd believe he really loves you. It sounds like he likes starting arguments as a way of building up his male ego.
Posted 10 months ago | Report
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Whatever, you're probably a typical stupid female, ruining his day, and then crying about it like he caused the problems.
Posted 10 months ago | Report
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yeah your rant doesn't sound very organized or rational at all, fuck you
Posted 7 months ago | Report
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If he seems to think you are always the cause of any "issues," then I am not sure I'd believe he really loves you. It sounds like he likes starting arguments as a way of building up his male ego.Posted 10 months ago | Report
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Whatever, you're probably a typical stupid female, ruining his day, and then crying about it like he caused the problems.Posted 10 months ago | Report
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yeah your rant doesn't sound very organized or rational at all, fuck youPosted 7 months ago | Report
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