<?xml version="1.0" encoding="windows-1252"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><atom:link href="http://www.ventibate.com/feed/ventibate.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><title>Ventibate</title><description>Get it off your chest before someone gets hurt</description><link>http://www.ventibate.com</link><lastBuildDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 07:20:01 EDT</lastBuildDate><pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 07:20:01 EDT</pubDate><generator>Ventibate Web Site</generator><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20489.html</guid><title>Season finales</title><description>i hate them!!!! it sucks! i watched three of them today and 2 of them ended without telling us if a character was dead or alive!!!! GRRRRR!!!! and the other one ended to where we don't know if a character is going to be fired or not! I HATE CLIFFHANGERS!</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20489.html</link><pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 00:14:17 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20468.html</guid><title>I doubt this will do ANYTHING</title><description>A friend and I, well we're aren't doing well. We used to be what I supposed you'd call &quot;best friends,&quot; but lately things have really sucked. It's not the first time. Call it a lack of communication, but i don't know. I just, gah, I see her passing notes in front of my face to other people about me and I hear she's been lying and making all kinds of stupid crap up about me.... Or maybe it's that stupid miscommunication thing, right? Anyway, another friend got the &quot;great&quot; idea to get us to sit down with a school counselor and  try to like work through our issues or some dumb shit like that. Yah know, every time I start trusting this &quot;best&quot; friend, I get HURT. She loves to announce all her woes to the world too. She things she has the worse problems in the world AND that somehow every other problem is  her fault and makes her a fuck up. I'm sorry, but she;s fucking obsessed with attention. I hate it. She tells the entire world every time she's having a bad day. She complains to everyone that will listen when she's had a bad hair day. 

I'm fucking sick of either supporting her through fucking EVERYTHING or being the one who she's pissed at. I'm sick of being SO damn nice, trying to talk to her, trying to tell her everything's going to be okay, being her fucking shoulder to cry on. It's tiring. I have my own damn issues to deal with. I can't SAY anything, DO ANYTHING, without her getting all &quot;upset.&quot; WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!!!! Can't you ever fucking grow up? 

I just want her to notice that I am doing BADLY. I want her  to turn around and see that I need help too sometimes. I need a friend TOO sometimes. Just FUCK!</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20468.html</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 20:51:09 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20467.html</guid><title>How about REALLY preparing kids for the real world?</title><description>High school-instead of making me take four years worth of classes for a career I ended up discarding, how about teaching future generations how to survive in this world? How about making Issues in American Society a mandatory class? I learned more about about humanity and society in that one class than I did in all four years of high school. I am 19 and I watch the news daily, I vote, and I can debate topics like abortion and war intelligently without turning into an elitist asshole. I see all sides of these issues, I kinda get the world we live in and have a better appreciation for my freedom and the things most Americans take for granted.  I wish that more teenagers had some knowledge of the real world outside of MySpace and the mall. We continue to breed ignorance-no wonder children in other countries are more intellectual and well-rounded.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20467.html</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 20:46:18 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20441.html</guid><title>What's a girl to do with friends like this?</title><description>About &pound;70.  Several hours, in a lovely place.  Wasted for you.  But I didn't mind, 'cause I love you.  You're my best friend, I would do anything for you.

But it's too one way.  As soon as you can get other people involved, you don't talk to me.

He broke up with her at a bad time, and did it via the phone.  I was the only person with her at the time.  I sat with her, for hours.  Missing out on doing stuff that I wanted to do (which couldn't be done later), because I wanted her to be ok.  Missing out on stuff I had previously paid for.  But, as I said, I didn't mind.  At the time.  But now we're back with everyone else, all I've had in the way of conversation is &quot;hi, how are you?&quot;.  Not really conversation, just civil greetings.  And so I wonder, did I do something wrong?  Or is it just that she really doesn't give a shit about me, despite everything I do for her?

I don't know what to do about you anymore.  This has been happening for too long.  Admittadly, it has been smaller events, but the principle is still the same.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20441.html</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 16:56:33 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20429.html</guid><title>I hate you</title><description>From now on, dont EVER ask me to do anything for you, you who I thought was my friend.  I'd rather jump off a bridge than help you in any way since you cant bring yourself to help me this once when you know how important it is to me!  You fucking bitch, I hope your life goes down the shitter.  And to you, the one that quit, all I can say is THANK YOU!!!!!!  We hated you so much, I'm glad you got offended when you got in trouble and then decided to quit.  We all loved it!</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20429.html</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 15:33:07 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20409.html</guid><title>Press 1 for English</title><description>I'm am getting so tired of hearing &quot;press 1 for English&quot; when I call a company. I speak English and I live in the U. S. which is an English speaking country. Why the hell should I have to press anything for English?

Although I would support a message that said, &quot;If you speak English press 1 and we'll be with you shortly. If you don't speak English, please hold while we contact immigration and trace your number.&quot;

- Sir Ventalot</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20409.html</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 13:38:07 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20336.html</guid><title>Unplanned kids and abortion</title><description>I would like to hear from parents of unplanned pregnancies who faced the abortion question. What did you choose? How did that work out for you? Do you think other parents should be required to follow your example?</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20336.html</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 02:04:21 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20329.html</guid><title>Dogs!</title><description>i am trying to get my female dachshund pregnant with our male dachshund, she started bleeding so we thought we missed our chance! NOW we come to find out that dogs have to bleed for NINE DAYS BEFORE trying to get pregnant! the &quot;period&quot; is before the ovulation... and she will be fertile after she stops bleeding! but in the mean-time i have a dog bleeding in my apartment! i'm off to the store for some doggy panties...</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20329.html</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 01:20:04 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20319.html</guid><title>Fake tits? bitch please</title><description>My girlfriend is a B cup right now. She has decent sized tits for a 5'6'' 125 lb. girl. Well she told me a couple weeks ago she wants fake tits. What the fuck is with her the past few weeks? She has been tanning her ass off lately, talking about fake tits and wearing mini skirts like a damn hoe. Dear god I love her but she's too materialistic for me ugh someone puncture my dick so I don't knock this broad up and marry her Hollywood loving psycho hose beast ass.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20319.html</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 00:00:29 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20314.html</guid><title>Stupid boy, so full of himself...</title><description>I don't know why I hate this kid, but I do. Maybe it's because he betrayed me and my best friends. Maybe it's because my best friend trust him way too much. Maybe it's the fact that he is such a condescending asshole. He is also obsessed with the fact that men are somehow WAY better than women. He says he's all liberal, but somehow NO ONE can an opposing opinion to him. He is SO sheltered too. he grew up attending Catholic school and is just so one-sided. I mean nothing against religion. It's not exactly my cup of tea, but whatever, I grew up with it, but somehow I was still open to other ideas. I just want to punch him in the face!</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20314.html</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 22:55:43 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20297.html</guid><title>Dear little sister</title><description>You are a stupid lying histrionic piece of shit. All our lives you and your mean spirited friends have incessantly abused me; often reducing me to tears, and playing no small part in destroying my self esteem. But of course that's not possible! You would never do such a thing! After all you're the one with the good grades the shitty music and the tan.

So of course when I tell you what a worthless little bitch you are after enduring 20 minutes of verbal abuse from you because you didn't want to clean up YOUR dog's shit in the living room (and you fucking wonder why you cant have another one you stupid cunt) that somehow translates into physical abuse because you are good at throwing hissy fits and conjuring fake tears?

But it's okay. 

One of these days your little victim act will turn you into just that: a victim. You'll experience real tears for the first time in your life but you won't have an ounce of compassion from me because what comes around goes around and it will have been a long time coming.

In the meantime, remember those adorable Victoria's Secret panties mommy bought for her perfect little angel? Oh, right. Which ones? Let's just say from now on every time you slight me you can sew the pieces back together from the trash.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20297.html</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 21:20:33 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20287.html</guid><title>Friends that care too much</title><description>GOD DAMN IT! Will they all just stop fucking worrying about me. I'm a big girl, I can honestly take care of myself. I know they care, but sometimes I just wish they'd STOP caring. I can't have a moment to myself. Seriously guys, if I'm alone it doesn't mean I'm committing suicide. I can honestly just need some space. I don't get a moment to myself. I'm going CRAZY. I need some space to just think things through on my own. I need a few days without you all threatening to like commit me so I can figure out MY options and do what's best for me. SO BACK OFF!!!</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20287.html</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 19:02:04 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20280.html</guid><title>Bras and why I hate them</title><description>i have small boobs so why do i have to wear abra i dont scream abuse at topless fat hairy men in the street with thier tops off nor do i slag of woman with thier asses hanging out in tiny skirts im not offending anyone. If you dont like my boobs dont look at them , bras are awful looking and uncomfaortable and i can run without having to wear a bra and my boobs dont bounce... So if you dont like my tits look the fuck away</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20280.html</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 18:19:52 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20251.html</guid><title>Why Do I Need Instructions on How to Leave a Message!?!?!</title><description>I nearly become homicidal every time I have to hear an outgoing message that gives me 45 minutes of instructions on how to leave a message.

Seriously, who the fuck doesn't know how to leave a message? I want to throw my phone across the room when I have to hear not only the regular outgoing message, like: &quot;Hi, this is Doug. I'm not here right now, so please leave a message&quot;, but then the imbecilic system kicks in with, &quot;If you would like to leave a message, please begin speaking after the tone&quot; (of course another 20 mins is going to go by before you hear the tone), it continues ... &quot;If you would like to review your message, press 4. If you would like to strangle someone because your life is wasting away listening to idiot instructions on how to leave a message, please smash your phone with a hammer ...  and on and on and on and on.

By the time the damn thing is done I forget who I called and why I called them.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20251.html</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 14:20:25 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20245.html</guid><title>Fake Customer Service - Bank Lines</title><description>Did you ever go to the bank drive thru and there are 3 - 4 open lanes, but only one stupid teller servicing all of them? What moronic imbecile dreamed up this totally fake customer service bullshit?

I can't stand it when I pull into the empty lane to find out I will still be sitting there for 20 minutes while the one teller takes care of the other three transactions for the people that are first in line in the other three lanes.

They should just have one fucking lane with a line of 4 cars instead of 4 lanes where everyone thinks they are first, but then find out only one person is being served at a time.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20245.html</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 13:47:00 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20185.html</guid><title>Damn Zealots!!!</title><description>I just finished watching the movie from the Stephen King book &quot;The Myst&quot;. That movie pissed me off so much because I hate people that always find relegion in everything. If I am every in a situation like that, I will just have one simple rule. The first person to start spitting out bullshit about things being a test from god, I swear they are going to get an ax in the forehead. 

I can understand faith and religion, and I have no problem with either. but when the shit your a spouting becomes a problem with me running my life I am going to start to hack people up. 

I know several people like that women in the movie at my college. One of these guys comes up to me and asks me a couple of questions: Have you every lusted after someone? Have you ever told a lie? Have you ever thought of stealing something? Have you ever expressed ill-will towards someone? And after each of these questions I said yes. He then said, So by your own words you are a lieing, murdering, stealing. adulterer. And just because you have thought about things like this you have already commited them in your heart. The best thing you can do now is repent and accept Jesus as you savior. 

He puts his hand on my shoulder and I burst out laughing. I looked him straight in the eyes and told him I guess that means that I can kill you and repent and still be ok, right. That is bullshit, to condemn someone for having a thought is insane. But, if we did follow you twisted logic that thoughts and intentions were all that matters then when you would have a fairly good chance to meet Hitler and a could other equally messed up people. because there is one fact that is amazingly true, From the best intentions come the worst consequences. 

After telling him this I walked away laughing and he has never talked to me again, and I am happier because of it.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20185.html</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 02:48:07 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20183.html</guid><title>Women Piss Me Off!!!</title><description>Why do these stupid bitchs always have to have there damn way or they make you life a living hell. If something goes wrong in my life, I find a way around it and keep moving. But every bitch I know just have to stress and bitch over every single thing that does not go their way. 

A girl I am with always bitches about how women should have the same rights as everyone else, but when it comes time for everyday shit that would disrupt there fragile ecosystem of a life they attack the nearest person that make them feel threatened. 

Now the back story behind this vent.

I am sitting in my political science class when my professor asks a question about equality between men and women. The this failed abortion, waste of life decides to express her own self-righteousness and rant about how her gender should be equal with with men. At the end or her rant I asked the class a few simple questions. How many of you women believe that you should be equal in every way to men? Every girl raised their hands. Ok, How many of you believe that a man should be able to hit a girl in a fight? No one raised their hands. How many of you believe that spousal abuse should be legal? Again no one raiser their hands. I then looked at the professor and said &quot;I rest my case&quot;. She laughed and told me I made a good argument. 

At the same time the failed abortion decides that I have messed up her world to much and decided to attack me while I am talking to the professor. This damn bitch stabs me with a pen in the shoulder, I dont me a poke, I mean she fucking stabbed me about two inches deep into my left shoulder. My adrenaline starts to pump and i kick the abortion in the knee, breaking it, and I punch her in the face, knocking her out and making her lose three teeth. We both get rushed to the hospital and The cops show up to get our stories.

To make a longer story shorter, I get charged with Aggravated Assault, and she gets self defense. Talk about Irony she wanted equal rights but when it comes down to it she wont stay with her convictions and I get to go to court. I am just glad that my professor it going to testify on my behalf.

So greetings from the hospital, and may that bitch rot in hell.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20183.html</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 02:26:48 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20156.html</guid><title>Bitchy bosses</title><description>ok... so i'm a 2 hour drive away from home and work, and my car breaks down (turned out to be the starter...) so i had to call work and call out. my boss says she needs me there, i say sorry but i have no way home! she says either your job is important or not! then when i say that there is no way to get there, she says to get there AS SOON AS I CAN and then hangs up on me! WTF????? what did she want me to do? transport, fly, walk? i'm not a miracle worker! its not my fault i was stuck 2 hours away! i had to take a test for school! i planned on being at work on time but shit happens, it can't be helped! i'm just glad i didnt get fired, well at least not yet...</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20156.html</link><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 22:55:32 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20149.html</guid><title>Leave Me Alone</title><description>I am so sick and tired of atheists attacking my religion. So what if I believe something different from you?

I am Christian, I follow the words of Jesus, I believe that Jesus was the Son of God, and there is nothing you or anyone else can do to change that. So please stop trying.

I let others believe what they want to believe, and I never try to force people to convert. The least you could do is treat me with the same level of courtesy.

And the only people I have ever had trying to tell me that I'm wrong are atheists. And they say Christians are the problem...

I admit, there are some Christians that are even worse than atheists for having a &quot;holier-than-thou&quot; complex (I'm looking at you, evangelical Americans), but if the atheists think they're so great then why do they act the exact same way?</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20149.html</link><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 22:05:07 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20148.html</guid><title>&quot;Best&quot; friends.</title><description>So yeah a girl that says she is supposed to be my best friend. She is driving me up a wall. It's fucking ridiculous. I mean, what the fuck. She's being such a fucking attention whore. It's like yesterday, me and another friend were having serious problems and then today she mysteriously is &quot;at her worse ever&quot;. She doesn't even realize that I am totally breaking down at the fucking speed of light. Every second, I am comforting and fucking caring and I listen to her problems and give advice. And there she is, every time I hint at how much I'm hurting, she just moves on to another one of problems. It's like I don't exist, EVER. The only person she listens to is the friend that betrayed her, and me. She's always listening to assholes. I wish she'd talk to me for once in her fucking life. I care about that damn girl way to much and all she does is betray me!!!!!!</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20148.html</link><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 22:02:09 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20135.html</guid><title>Bullying evolved</title><description>I am in the ninth grade and we always get these annoying talks about how bullying is bad. Newsflash! no bullies act like the way they do on Tv its different now. I get bullied by girls Girls! I want to punch these these kids in the face but I can't becase then i am labeled as a bully. these girls make fun of me by hugging me and saying i love you and they don't mean it i can tell. Parents please tell your daughter that she should just leave kids alone. Guys are also responsible they come up to me and say hey your cool want to be my freind and you know they don't mean it.

I am being bullied and I never did anything I am not a nerd, Jock, Freak, Emo, ETC I am just a normal kid. But I am on the edge of going insane! can't we just get along?</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20135.html</link><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 20:34:51 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20119.html</guid><title>Get the hell off my back, woman!</title><description>Ok, I know I made a mistake, but misunderstandings happen between TWO people, not ONE person on his/her own... I apologized, I've tried to make it right, and yet all you can do is regurgitate the same rhetoric about how I should not have done what I did.

YES I gave away something that wasn't mine (YOUR son should have had his sh*t out of the place like he said he would); YES, I should have called to double check before I took action. I went and got back what I could and I am offering you more than fair compensation.  YES, I realize now that the furniture in question was not a gift from the neighbor like I was led to believe.

NO I am not just going to write you a check for something when I look into it and find that it's not worth what you're asking in return; NO, your son is not perfect. In fact, he continues to flip-flop and offer me other furniture.  Why don't you ask HIM to sell that crap?  He was responsible for it in the FIRST place and he skipped town for 3 weeks...

I felt bad... Until you crawled up my asshole about how I need to grow up and be accountable for my actions.  What do you want me to do? Go back in time and undo it?  Fuck off!

Your ugly piece of old ass furniture was not worth what you are asking from me.  If you want the money, take my offer and SELL IT YOURSELF.

You weren't even there to hear what he said in the first place, cunt.  Do not accuse me of blatantly doing something malicious when HE was the one who made it seem as though he would take care of something and dropped the ball.

It's just a stupid loveseat anyways.  Go ahead, take me to fucking court.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20119.html</link><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 17:50:07 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20103.html</guid><title>20 yrs of her</title><description>My mum is a heartless person. In general~ self obessed. I knw ur prob thinkin &quot;thats nought compared to some parents and their doings out there&quot;. 

True. but consider this. ...

i am the eldest. Since i was born- i have had two homes.. my mums~ and my father's parents. my grandparents. i was under court order to visit them every 4nite weekend. whilst round their's i'd be lively, while round mums- i was meek, apologetic, fearful of her. 

i followed up my visits til i was 16.. even tho mum fought to remove the order at 7. i still went. life round mums got harder as i became a teen~ the intensity of the arguements- battle of will- grew.

On more than 1 occasion she held my up against my neck. taking my GCSE exams was hell. .. . I was locked up - altho more emotionally than anything. I am unable to hold my stance in a arguement, i still repeatedly apologise, meek and yeilding to this day becoz of my upbringing. 

i was able to move out due to my ex~ and his &quot;disgusting &quot;ways (he was bi)- yes, she called me disgusting.

and i went straight into the arms of my grandparents. they took me in~ housed me~ and helped me get to uni. i am forever in their debt and gratitiude. mum still hardly cares for me, i am unable to contact my lil brother much- as it has to be thro her. she does not care for my uni, life. all about her- and wat she's done.  every visit round to hers silences me emotionally, as the past creeps up on my mind. and SHE wants respect and love from me??

Everytime she says i love you- i can't respond, coz i don't love nor respect her... bday cards~ mothers day~ xmas.. is hell to buy for her.. coz it is meaningless for me.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20103.html</link><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 16:02:53 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20098.html</guid><title>Dear S.</title><description>Shes cheating on you. She doesn't deserve you, shes a close mate of mine but dude, she's gonna fuck you over like all of her past relationships. This is why I never got together with her when I had the chance. Be wary, she's not really going to __________ this weekend, shes in ________ with some dickhead she met at *****s. It's you and her six month aniversary tonight. Don't waste your love on her and your money on ridiculously overpriced pizza.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20098.html</link><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 15:41:20 EDT</pubDate></item><item><guid>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20097.html</guid><title>Absence makes the heart grow stronger</title><description>my 1st rant~ so i apologise now for its style etc... but i cannot turn to my friends with this topic~ they have heard it many a time before. i won't pull them thro it again. 

i would gladly pay watever amount of money to the 1st person tht invents a heart~head interpreter.. coz i am so confused and angry at myself for letting my situation remain like this for soo long. i moved to uni~ my ex dumped me~ distance issues~ 6 months on, and i am liking this other guy, altho we aren't together yet. 

however i remain in contact with my ex~ i am the sort of person who hates breaking ties, i feel guilty if i do.  everytime i go hme~ i pay him a visit... and in which the regrets, i miss yous ; and the sex; come into play. but afterwards i feel so confused bout wat is happening. 

my most recent visit has resulted nothing further with my crush... but another episode with my ex~ and him actually wanting to win me back~ AND I'M CONSIDERING THE &quot;WAT IFS&quot;  IF HE DID!!! i am so confused and angry at myself- but everytime i am near my ex, i forget our past and hope.. 

i am at a loss and my own worst enemy when at home~ but when 170 away from it all... i can bitch, laugh be happy in the knowledge tht my emotional state is safe.</description><link>http://ventibate.com/showthread_20097.html</link><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 15:38:35 EDT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>