Figure it out
He fucking beat you. I was there. He threw you to the ground, and before I could get there he went upside your head. As I pulled him away, he kicked you in the stomach hard enough to make you think you had broken ribs. He called you a lying whore, a useless bitch, fucking worthless, and all because of his own insecurities. He verbally beat you down in front of your own children, calling you a lying piece of shit and a deceitful bitch, all for your kids to hear. But he loves you. Give me a fucking break.I understand, you did leave him. You were strong enough to do that. Your strength has amazed me everday to this point, the things you have gone through to keep doing what you feel is right. But all it ever takes is one phone call. How can you honestly even consider going back to him knowing what he has done? Not only that, but you know as well as I do that you're not considering it because you love him, it's because you feel guilty. Yeah, he's been pretty good at guilting you into being with him for the last 9 fucking years, haven't you had enough? And your kids, do you honestly believe that one day soon they won't see why you left him and completely lose their respect for you? Jesus Christ, no one you know thinks or ever thought you two should be together, he's a fucking dick. An insecure image driven little boy who only looks at you like another of his posessions. He doesn't fucking care about you or your feelings he just wants to know that he's won... So he can put you back up on his little mantle and know that he's got you, even though he also knows you're not with him because you love him. He doesn't care. It doesn't matter to him to know that he doesn't deserve you, 'cause he has you regardless. I can't believe you can't see that. Just remember, you could have had everything you wanted in someone. When you'e sitting there on the couch and he's standing over you, making you feel small and worthless, remember that you went back to it, and it was all "for your kids"... Yeah, 'cause he's done so much for them too, right? What the fuck ever. Figure it out.
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^ LOL!
# 10 I know that getting involved is a big hassle, but this time you saw the assault, you didn't hear about it, and you're involved already.
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#6 you are an asshole. That is the least funny joke I've ever heard. Lame!
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#9, it is never acceptable to abuse your partner. If you really love someone, you don't strike them and you don't hurt them, physically, mentally or emotionally.
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i thought you were writing this to my mom, until the part about "almost" breaking a rib. he did fracture them. and fucked up some nerves.
i understand the frustration. how the fuck can you still love someone who did something this cowardly and fucking detestable to you?
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My two cents worth:
1. Men and Women who are abused by their spouses don't always necessarily stay because they "love" them, even if they say that is why. The things that the abused are threatened with seem to be far worse than a strike to the face (like: "If you tell anybody, I'll make your life a living hell.")
2. Some men and women who are abused know nothing other than abuse. Maybe they were abused as children by other people who said they "love" them, thus causing these same people to associate love with abuse.
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My three cents worth: (which beats the hell out of two cents worth)
Chris Rock had it right. The minute a woman knows you will not hit her, it is all over. She thinks she has license to say whatever the fuck she wants. you have to keep the thought in the back of her mind that if she opens her big damn mouth, you might close it for her
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^ Nah, just probably pissed that all mothers are teaching their children - especially their daughters - that every man on the street might be a rapist or abusive. # 14's probably a guy (who's nice) and hates it that his reputation as a male is getting screwed up because of all the assholes in the world.
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^ LOL!# 10 I know that getting involved is a big hassle, but this time you saw the assault, you didn't hear about it, and you're involved already.
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#6 you are an asshole. That is the least funny joke I've ever heard. Lame!Posted 7 months ago | Report
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#9, it is never acceptable to abuse your partner. If you really love someone, you don't strike them and you don't hurt them, physically, mentally or emotionally.Posted 7 months ago | Report
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i thought you were writing this to my mom, until the part about "almost" breaking a rib. he did fracture them. and fucked up some nerves.i understand the frustration. how the fuck can you still love someone who did something this cowardly and fucking detestable to you?
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My two cents worth:1. Men and Women who are abused by their spouses don't always necessarily stay because they "love" them, even if they say that is why. The things that the abused are threatened with seem to be far worse than a strike to the face (like: "If you tell anybody, I'll make your life a living hell.")
2. Some men and women who are abused know nothing other than abuse. Maybe they were abused as children by other people who said they "love" them, thus causing these same people to associate love with abuse.
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My three cents worth: (which beats the hell out of two cents worth)Chris Rock had it right. The minute a woman knows you will not hit her, it is all over. She thinks she has license to say whatever the fuck she wants. you have to keep the thought in the back of her mind that if she opens her big damn mouth, you might close it for her
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^ Nah, just probably pissed that all mothers are teaching their children - especially their daughters - that every man on the street might be a rapist or abusive. # 14's probably a guy (who's nice) and hates it that his reputation as a male is getting screwed up because of all the assholes in the world.Posted 6 months ago | Report
