Why?? your not kids any more
where does it all start? i understand everybody like a clean person, WHY is it hard to pick up your plates or garbage? Im not your mother and even my kids help out more then you why is it sooo hard to TRY to be clean? or the baby is crying all day couldn't u take him off my shoulders for a hr? u come home tired i understand most of the times i just let u be, but why cant u do something nice for me? WHY, i must always be the romantic one Im feeling like a carpet when both of you come homeslowly all is getting to me .. but still i will hold that smile high when you both come through the door because nothing ever changes when i do say something
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1im sorry,
im also unappreciated
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2whatever mom
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3I understand you are frustrated but I feel unappreciated... Like you only want me around so I pay you more than your rent costs each month and on top of that about $200 a month on groceries even though I don't eat at home very often. I work very hard for my money, sis, and you knew from the beginning I am a messy person (although I do make an effort to put away my dishes and clean them/put them away for the most part) but I feel used. I feel like your boyfriend and you both have hostile feelings towards me. I am not made of money and I work my ass of everyday for a shitty paycheque that doesn't allow me to live on my own because if I could, I would move out just so that I'm not such a fucking burden on you. I'm sorry you feel the way that you do but you aren't the only person here being fucked around. When baby cries, no matter what I'm doing I get his bottle/pacifier to feed and comfort him, and when your daughter is hungry or thirsty I wait on her, hand and foot. I am thankful that you share your home with me, but I don't believe you have it that hard. I give you half my money each month (sometimes more) and I don't understand why your boyfriend is so damn useless... It's your's and his baby, not your's and mine. He does nothing for you and you said yourself you are content without a man. Your oldest child used to be such a polite, well-mannered boy. I don't know what happened, but somewhere along the way since we moved he has turned into such a rude little brat! I love your kids more than anyone in my world and would do anything for them. If you ever died I would be willing to take them with open arms... I don't know what you've been saying but it seems like the kids don't care much for me anymore, either. Next time you are sick you can get your boyfriend to hold your hair back while you puke and give your info to the hospital staff... I'm sure he will understand "next of kin" and "which hospital was she at last?" when he barely speaks/understands a word of English.
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4Also, stop making promises you can't keep... You borrowed money from me just a couple days before my birthday (you borrow money from me quite often) and you said when your child tax comes in you would buy me a birthday gift. My birthday was a month ago. I just gave you rent money and you haven't mentioned my gift or your child tax which you should have received 2 weeks ago. I am not worried about receiving a present, but don't get my hopes up when all I received this year was a bottle of cheap lotion from an acquaintance... And 5 pieces of chocolate from our father. I love you and look up to you/have so much respect for you, but please stop with the "poor me" crap because I am so fucking angry inside right now. You don't even know.
Sincerely, #3.
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5Ha ha, OP got busted!!!
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6Yeah, and she said it didn't make her feel any better after she vented on here, but we spoke face-to-face after she read my reply, and everything is going a lot better now that we've cleared up some misunderstandings we've had. Thank you Ventibate. If my sister hadn't posted this on here (and I hadn't found it), we would have continued living with these problems in an angry silence.
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7Learn to spell!!!
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