Should I Tell?
Ok i recently posted a vent about A close friend that i really like but im not sure whether i should tell her or not. Im soo freaked out by this because im dreading her respone. What do you all think I should do?
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1I have been in your shoes many times. I am the biggest pussy on earth when it comes to women. The fact of the matter is that, when you are in your mid to late twenties, you will realise your error.
She will not think you are a creep or anything if you ask her out. At worst, she will be flattered and say no. At best, she will say yes.
As far as your situation, she says no and you are embarrassed. Or she says yes, and you win. The third scenario is that you say nothing. The end result is the same as the first scenario.
If she is cool, as you prob think she is if you like her, she will not be running around like "he asked me out and i shot him down, hahahahah look at that loser" Most girls dont do that. Aside from the fact that it is evil and wrong, they know that it will intimidate guys from comming up to them in the future.
In short, you really have nothing to lose by asking her out. At worst, you will be where you are now- not having a date, but wanting one. At best, you might actually get along
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2cheers thanks that helped alot :)
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3Just have to have the courage to say now
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4Tell her you want to lick her butthole, girls love that.
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5I thought this girl you liked had a boyfriend. Maybe I'm thinking of a different story. I don't know, anyway if she doesn't then suck it up and ask her out. If she does just think like this... if you were already dating someone and another person asked you out what would you do?
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6So what if she rejects you! We have all been rejected in one way or another! You are miserable with your "secret" and you shouldn't have to live like that! Chances are she feels the same way. Chances are she will tell you that she likes you as a friend..... You will be crushed, then chances are a little time will go by and she will be miserable without you!----I am a female, this is exactly how my story went, I am now engaged to my "best friend" that finally told me how he felt, it took me about 2 weeks to decide I couldn't live without him!
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